Attention Last Minute Shoppers!

Last-minute shoppers! I can be accused of being one many times over. However, I have always had the kids taken care of before the last minute since I moved here. Back in the day, I waited until the last minute to buy my number one friend a gift because she would sometimes end up buying … Continue reading Attention Last Minute Shoppers! →

When I Think About Self Improvement…

When I stop and think about Self Improvement, I am grounded in the idea of what can actually help me improve. We are in the month of September which is Self-improvement month and it has me riled up. What is wrong with me that I need improvement? This is what I’m thinking- I need all … Continue reading When I Think About Self Improvement… →

A Love Letter To An Older Me

Dearest Esther or Evie (what name are you using now?) Baby Esther and Mrs. Esther / The Precious Lady that I was named after. Talking about names, did you ever go back to being called Esther? If not, what does an older Evie think of being called a nickname of your middle name instead of … Continue reading A Love Letter To An Older Me →

My Bucket List

Hey, Y'all. I have never really made my true bucket list available for people to read. I have done some but nothing that was really personal. I have made a personal bucket list in my diary 100 times over. There is only one bucket list that matters though. It was the one I made when … Continue reading My Bucket List →

Losing Those We Are Close To

I have been thinking a lot about losing people lately. When you reach a certain age, you know that it will not be long before you are parentless. When you have a pet for so many years you know your time is short. So many of my friends lately have been losing parents and pets. … Continue reading Losing Those We Are Close To →

Happy (3rd) Anniversary To Me!

Here we are on March 25, 2022. To you, this date may not mean too much but to me, it is the day that I officially began this blog. 3 years ago I was so scared and so in awe of how my boyfriend had so much faith in me that he bought me my … Continue reading Happy (3rd) Anniversary To Me! →

Blog Series: Internet Relationship #6 – Jeremy

This installment brings you into my current relationship… Sharing with you a precious journey… In love, I have had many hurts. I have never thought I was not supposed to have love because of my size. My thoughts of lacking love were all due to my trauma. However, I have experienced love changing due to … Continue reading Blog Series: Internet Relationship #6 – Jeremy →

January In Review

So many things have happened this month. Some things have been the normal things that happen every month and others have been new. So vague, right?? Well as life would have it, January was a hard month. Physically, emotionally and work wise as well. Let's talk about Findingevie. January was the first month we had … Continue reading January In Review →

National Spouses’ Day

Some time in the 1980s some person probably married and decided to make National Spouses’ Day a thing. Wait I know what you are thinking, don't we have one of those and it’s called Valentine’s Day? Well actually yes and no. While Spouses’ Day is very much for what it implies, Valentine’s Day is more … Continue reading National Spouses’ Day →

My “One Day” Dream

Sometimes we have dreams that will never come true. Sometimes we have dreams that form from life events, and sometimes we have dreams that we share and they come to be. As time goes by, more and more my heart grows for others. Being online and in the public eye, people reach out to me … Continue reading My “One Day” Dream →