Diary 101 #10: All The Big, Scary Things

Have you ever done big things? Things you could never imagine you would do? Well, it just so happens I had one of those experiences. Sometimes when I'm down, I start to wonder if I will ever have anything to show for my life, and then I remember I have done big scary things. I … Continue reading Diary 101 #10: All The Big, Scary Things →

PTSD Awareness Day

Being aware of mental illness is something more and more people are doing. For the first time in forever, Mental illness is not the dirty little word in the room anymore….. or is it? The stigma may not be in mental Illness itself but in what type of mental illness you have. Why is depression … Continue reading PTSD Awareness Day →

Summers in New York

I have had the longing for Ralph’s Italian ice and a long drive with the window down where you can smell the ocean way before you can see it. New York summers will always have a place in my heart. Imagine the first summer in a new place. You are used to nothing but summers … Continue reading Summers in New York →

National Kissing Day

Because it is National Kissing Day, I hope you get to kiss and be kissed with the magic, fierceness, and passion that you rightfully deserve. The kiss- It’s funny how many times I have thought about this kiss. I don’t remember details about days later, nor do I even remember a lot about this night … Continue reading National Kissing Day →

Diary 101 #9: Immortality-the ability to live forever; eternal life. The story of a struggling believer.

When we are born, our parents, no matter what they say, visualize a life for their child that they hope they have. When you are born into a Christian family that visualization is even more intense. Most of the time you are dedicated in the church by a minister so that you will be protected … Continue reading Diary 101 #9: Immortality-the ability to live forever; eternal life. The story of a struggling believer. →

National Flip Flop Day- Find Some Must-Haves on Amazon!

Something to know about me is that I love flip-flops. I’d rather wear flip-flops than any other shoe. At one time in my life, I had over 50 pairs. I had a real obsession. This month has been all about the feet. I guess it is the month that is approved for bare feet or … Continue reading National Flip Flop Day- Find Some Must-Haves on Amazon! →

Blog Series – Internet Relationships #12: The Ex-Friend

What is more drama and more difficult than talking to boys online? Being friends with women. Beauties, why are we so complicated? I swear - female relationships stress me out so much. Lately, friendship has not been good to me. I made some mistakes, and let people in too much. The story goes- As luck … Continue reading Blog Series – Internet Relationships #12: The Ex-Friend →

Redefining Beauty

As a chubby child, a fat teen to a fat adult there has always been one common denominator. This common denominator isn’t just from my experiences but from other fat people as well. What is the common denominator, Well it is being told You are so beautiful if you would just lose weight. Me as … Continue reading Redefining Beauty →

Adrienne Bennett. Rest in Peace, Angel.

Normally I wake up and check my email and Instagram. June the first, I woke up to Instagram telling me that I had lost another friend in the plus-size community. Adrienne Bennett. If you know Adrienne from Instagram you know that she had the motto “no more hiding”. What she gave to the plus-size community … Continue reading Adrienne Bennett. Rest in Peace, Angel. →

Diary 101 #8: The Things People Say

I made a huge decision to start deleting the fake accounts' and the accounts that were from other countries that just would not stop with the DM’s. If you’re on social media and a woman, you already know what I’m talking about. I will be the first one to admit that sometimes you can bond … Continue reading Diary 101 #8: The Things People Say →