Beauties – You’re Invited!

I wish I could write an invite and have a huge bash with all my friends from all over the states and the world for that matter. Something not everyone knows about me is I love to plan and throw parties. If I could get married every year I'd do it in a heartbeat because … Continue reading Beauties – You’re Invited! →

Good Fat Bad Fat

Good fat, bad fat, thin privilege, small fat privilege, financial privilege, who you know privilege. This is going to be the topic of this post and a few posts to come on how all these words affect a fat person’s world. This is a blog post for women my size to feel seen and/or for … Continue reading Good Fat Bad Fat →

Redefining Beauty

As a chubby child, a fat teen to a fat adult there has always been one common denominator. This common denominator isn’t just from my experiences but from other fat people as well. What is the common denominator, Well it is being told You are so beautiful if you would just lose weight. Me as … Continue reading Redefining Beauty →

What My Smile Means To Me

During the pandemic, I really learned what my smile meant to me. Now, this comes from a girl that is pretty in tune with how my smile makes me feel. I have had lots of emotions based on my smile. When I was little, sometimes people would say something about my gap. In later years … Continue reading What My Smile Means To Me →

Let’s Talk (Fat Talk & Age Talk)

How old is old? When you look in the mirror and see your mother? Myself next to my Mom Birth to 17- Fear/responsibility/Fear/being a child 18-24- Feelings of Depression/loss/immaturity living like there was no tomorrow/size crippled me to not living 24 – 31- hope for the future/getting my education/falling in love/moving to a new place/losing … Continue reading Let’s Talk (Fat Talk & Age Talk) →

Happy Lookalike Day!

A good friend on the left and me - don't we look like we could be sisters?! We have a national day for everything nowadays. Happy National Lookalike Day. At first, I was not going to use this national day as a topic then suddenly it hit me how to talk about National Lookalike Day … Continue reading Happy Lookalike Day! →

My Favorite Book From Amazon

I love to read but like most things in my life, I do it for a bit then get addicted and have to break up with the addiction. I am not one of these people that can read a little here and there. I have to know the ending almost as soon as I start. … Continue reading My Favorite Book From Amazon →

January In Review

So many things have happened this month. Some things have been the normal things that happen every month and others have been new. So vague, right?? Well as life would have it, January was a hard month. Physically, emotionally and work wise as well. Let's talk about Findingevie. January was the first month we had … Continue reading January In Review →

How Do You See Me?

Recently I was shocked by the idea of someone not knowing what I was about by looking at my feed. I thought it to be clear and then I took a closer look at myself. I tried to not look at it from my perspective but to see what others see instead. Yes, at first … Continue reading How Do You See Me? →

A Body That Has Become Like A Jail

What is it like to wake up in a body that has become like a jail? I open my eyes, always tired because of lack of sleep or just the weariness I feel anticipating the tasks I need to do on any particular day. My body hurts instantly. I assess the situation, trying to decide … Continue reading A Body That Has Become Like A Jail →