Diary 101 – blog entry 4: The Heavy Weight of Weight

I haven’t journaled in so long, and I feel that by avoiding journaling, it is a way for me to hide from myself. Here is the topic for today…I’m going to talk about weight. Yes, that topic. I maintained a weight of 425 for a long time, longer than any other number on the scale. … Continue reading Diary 101 – blog entry 4: The Heavy Weight of Weight →

Infinifat Life Savers

Waking up fat isn’t just something that happens, however it can sneak up on you when you least expect it. I’m not so naive to think all fat people have the same problems, but many of us know there are lies we tell ourselves. Being fat is not a crime and should not be punishing. … Continue reading Infinifat Life Savers →

What Does Privilege Look Like For Infinifats?

What does Privilege look like to Infinifats? What are your privileges? I initially asked this question on my Instagram @Findingevie if you want to take a look there. Here I want to dive deeper into my thoughts on this topic of size terms and privileges. First let’s set the record straight on terminology - I … Continue reading What Does Privilege Look Like For Infinifats? →

Period Drama or Drama Period

I had planned a trip to a friend’s house that would last two weeks. Those two weeks I planned to use for some work, yes,but also for friendship and fun. So there I was, on my bed, getting ready to pack. I honestly didn’t know what to pack. What outfits did I want to do a shootin? I decided on an “authentic Evie” and packed the “shoot” bags full of t-shirts and a couple … Continue reading Period Drama or Drama Period →

A Ramble –

I am having a real hard time figuring out how to write a blog that people want to read. Is that something I should be saying out loud to you? Recently I was asked why I started my social media platform. I paused because I honestly didn’t know how to say it. Let me explain. … Continue reading A Ramble – →

The Perfect Panty

The Perfect Panty Women run business! A mission statement I can believe in! Giving back to the community. On top of that, panties! I think I have discovered the Unicorn Brand! Imagine panties that two friends of vast different sizes and shapes could wear the same trendy style! Matching panties, don’t laugh at that, yes … Continue reading The Perfect Panty →

Memorial Day

I am posting my Memorial Day post at the bottom of this blog, looking for photos, writing these words made me think of how things have changed. How traditions are no longer a part of my life and how making new traditions have been hard for me. When you move to a new place, change … Continue reading Memorial Day →

Empower Me

What's holding you back from being happy? May is mental health awareness month. So more than ever we are going to talk about some of the hard stuff! Morgan Maxi Dress This photo of me , I saw it and felt empowered. “I will stand proud” and on my own two feet. There maybe times … Continue reading Empower Me →

Instagram post – Black Wrap Dresses ( Dia& Co )

When you think of dressing up, do you think long/short, black/color, especially if your higher plus size what do you go with? I know for us extended size Ladies it can be tuff to find the right item of clothing that makes you feel like a hundred bucks! When it comes to dresses it’s almost … Continue reading Instagram post – Black Wrap Dresses ( Dia& Co ) →

Bad Self Talk

Tell me a bad habit you have in the realms of loving yourself? *I hate to admit this- It goes against everything I try to instill in all of you! You know me, I’m all about the real me, real me is flawed, and I call my self Stupid constantly. When I take photos and … Continue reading Bad Self Talk →