Good Fat Bad Fat

Good fat, bad fat, thin privilege, small fat privilege, financial privilege, who you know privilege. This is going to be the topic of this post and a few posts to come on how all these words affect a fat person’s world. This is a blog post for women my size to feel seen and/or for … Continue reading Good Fat Bad Fat →

Acquaintances vs Stranger HATE

Hi Beauties, this is going to be a piece talking about how I handle the hate and what affects me vs what doesn’t. I am going to start out on the easier of the two to handle and talk about. Stranger Hate. Recently on Tiktok (and this is exactly why I did not want to … Continue reading Acquaintances vs Stranger HATE →

Let’s Talk (Fat Talk & Age Talk)

How old is old? When you look in the mirror and see your mother? Myself next to my Mom Birth to 17- Fear/responsibility/Fear/being a child 18-24- Feelings of Depression/loss/immaturity living like there was no tomorrow/size crippled me to not living 24 – 31- hope for the future/getting my education/falling in love/moving to a new place/losing … Continue reading Let’s Talk (Fat Talk & Age Talk) →

My Favorite Book From Amazon

I love to read but like most things in my life, I do it for a bit then get addicted and have to break up with the addiction. I am not one of these people that can read a little here and there. I have to know the ending almost as soon as I start. … Continue reading My Favorite Book From Amazon →

A Body That Has Become Like A Jail

What is it like to wake up in a body that has become like a jail? I open my eyes, always tired because of lack of sleep or just the weariness I feel anticipating the tasks I need to do on any particular day. My body hurts instantly. I assess the situation, trying to decide … Continue reading A Body That Has Become Like A Jail →

Inclusivity in the Plus Size Community

The call for inclusivity has been an ongoing process for some time now on social media. It has grown to the point that now we have influencers that have really taken it on as their personal quest by devoting their time and space to get these brands of plus size clothing to really hear what … Continue reading Inclusivity in the Plus Size Community →

Infinifat Life Savers

Waking up fat isn’t just something that happens, however it can sneak up on you when you least expect it. I’m not so naive to think all fat people have the same problems, but many of us know there are lies we tell ourselves. Being fat is not a crime and should not be punishing. … Continue reading Infinifat Life Savers →

What Does Privilege Look Like For Infinifats?

What does Privilege look like to Infinifats? What are your privileges? I initially asked this question on my Instagram @Findingevie if you want to take a look there. Here I want to dive deeper into my thoughts on this topic of size terms and privileges. First let’s set the record straight on terminology - I … Continue reading What Does Privilege Look Like For Infinifats? →

The Perfect Panty

The Perfect Panty Women run business! A mission statement I can believe in! Giving back to the community. On top of that, panties! I think I have discovered the Unicorn Brand! Imagine panties that two friends of vast different sizes and shapes could wear the same trendy style! Matching panties, don’t laugh at that, yes … Continue reading The Perfect Panty →

I am Fat Following the Norm

I am fat, and while I never want to be any thing but what I am, I want to ride this wave of acceptance while I can...