When I Think About Self Improvement…

When I stop and think about Self Improvement, I am grounded in the idea of what can actually help me improve. We are in the month of September which is Self-improvement month and it has me riled up. What is wrong with me that I need improvement? This is what I’m thinking- I need all … Continue reading When I Think About Self Improvement… →

Taking One For the Team: Self-Improvement and the Art of War

“Self-improvement is the improvement of one's knowledge, status, or character by one's own efforts”. I recently read an article full of puns written by James Clear and while the puns make achieving self-improvement seem fail-proof it really isn’t. However, “Failure is not a result of poor willpower, but a result of poor strategy.” So, I … Continue reading Taking One For the Team: Self-Improvement and the Art of War →

Diary 101 #10: Who Am I?

Dear Diary: I am getting old, and with that comes confusion. In my younger Life, I wanted to be the “rich girl”, the one with all the style and class but instead, I was a poor girl who was clumsy and awkward. Then in my 20’s I wanted to be wild and crazy. In my … Continue reading Diary 101 #10: Who Am I? →

Nothing and I mean NOTHING works the way you want it…

Ever have one of those days where nothing works the way you think it should? Well, welcome to my world. I have those days almost every day. I have to go the long untraveled road to get to the simplest answers or solutions. It really is frustrating and sometimes overwhelming. Being a super hyper person … Continue reading Nothing and I mean NOTHING works the way you want it… →

September Goals

The thing about goals I want you to understand is some people do and some people do not function well with goals. What works for me may not work for you and that is ok. I sometimes meet all my goals and sometimes I don’t meet a single one. This month I have some pretty … Continue reading September Goals →

The Tunes That Make Me Feel Good

I have been experimenting with different forms of blogging. This Blog Findingevie, it is just that it is about me finding myself and sharing my journey with you in the hope it reaches the right people, the people that need to see the struggle to achieve healthy mental health while experiencing the highs and the … Continue reading The Tunes That Make Me Feel Good →

Birthdays of Yesterday

Before I get started on this recollection of my past birthdays, I want to say not all the good was great and not all the bad was horrible. It is what it is. It has shaped me into who I am today… If I think hard, I can remember my 3or 4 yr. old birthday. … Continue reading Birthdays of Yesterday →

The Top 20 List of Things I Love

Mental health is so important for us to be aware of. For me, something that really helps when I am feeling signs of depression and anxiety is to think about the things that I really truly love and that make me happy. Here is my top 20 list. Things I love… My partner. Jeremy makes … Continue reading The Top 20 List of Things I Love →

Cake. More Cake. All The Cakes!

Birthday cakes. Throughout my life, I have had some amazing birthday cakes. To my knowledge most were chocolate. I have had all kinds of homemade cakes decorated in all kinds of ways. ( you can barely see it but that's coke cake on the table) One of my favorite birthday cakes is a coke cake. … Continue reading Cake. More Cake. All The Cakes! →

20 Things I Have Learned in 44 Years of Life

You can take the girl out of the country but you can’t take the country out of the girl. Same goes for the city. You can take the city girl out of the city but can’t take the city out of the girl. (What does that make me?)Pets are truly your best friend. Know one loves … Continue reading 20 Things I Have Learned in 44 Years of Life →