I have to make changes. It is just facts. The way I take care of myself has been lacking on many fronts for some time. When I moved to MA. I was in decent shape. I had gained weight before I got here, but I had no plans to gain more. However, even though I … Continue reading Changes For My Heart
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Blog Series: Internet Relationship #6 – Jeremy
This installment brings you into my current relationship… Sharing with you a precious journey… In love, I have had many hurts. I have never thought I was not supposed to have love because of my size. My thoughts of lacking love were all due to my trauma. However, I have experienced love changing due to … Continue reading Blog Series: Internet Relationship #6 – Jeremy
Blog Series: Internet Relationship #5
I was 26 and I had not really had an adult relationship. I was also a virgin. I was 26 when I met him, and I am 43 now and I can still see him walk around the corner of the building. The air was cold, but that was not what was making me tremble. … Continue reading Blog Series: Internet Relationship #5
Collections – A Nicer Word For Hoarder?
Collecting …. Isn’t that just a nicer word for hoarder? I spent the last 13 years before I moved to Massachusetts becoming a minimalist . Before then I was a Collector. I had a huge Winnie the Pooh collection, I had every book I ever owned since I was born, I had a stuffed bear … Continue reading Collections – A Nicer Word For Hoarder?
Valentine’s Memories
Growing up in a small town which was mainly a logging/paper mill town, it felt like there were three groups of people in my school – the rich, the people pretending to be rich, and the poor. With very little in-between the divide, there was competition made out of everything. Who would have the best … Continue reading Valentine’s Memories
Blog Series: Internet Relationships #4- Mr. H
Sometimes love stories do not end the way you ever expected them to or wanted. However, staying on topic of internet relationships and it being the month of love and heart health, I wanted to only talk about the true romantic loves in my life. To do that I can’t not talk about my Ex. … Continue reading Blog Series: Internet Relationships #4- Mr. H
Random Acts of Kindness
Thoughtfulness is something that we as a world do not pay enough attention to. If we thought about our neighbors more and what we could do to better their lives instead of always thinking about how to better our own, we would live in a different world. Throughout my life I have had the honor … Continue reading Random Acts of Kindness
My Heart Health Story
So, it's February. It is American Heart Month so what better time to revisit my heart health story. This isn’t a healthy story nor is it a story where I say that I once was bad and now it's better. It is the story of a normal person, with normal failures and normal wins. We … Continue reading My Heart Health Story
Blog Series: Internet Relationship #3 – Robert
Internet relationships cannot be talked about for me without talking about “him” … You know the one, the one that loved you just as much as you loved him. This story has a happy but sad ending. However, it is a story worth telling. The portal to online dating When I met Robert, I was … Continue reading Blog Series: Internet Relationship #3 – Robert
What is this thing called LOVE LANGUAGE?
Love language - it is the way that you show and or receive love. Knowing your love language can be helpful. Knowing your spouse's love language can be a game changer. Just ask anyone who was ever in a marriage that didn’t work. The failure comes usually from the spouse knowing, but not caring or … Continue reading What is this thing called LOVE LANGUAGE?