March

Happy March Beauties. Old photo but it's appropriate for the month! I do not know what March holds. How is it March already? Time just refuses to get back to normal for me. Since September everything has been weird, and difficult. Sitting around literally waiting for it to be ok to walk. Mentally I’m a … Continue reading March →

Lets Save the Tatas

Now that I don’t have breast cancer in my immediate family but the reality is, I am the only one in my immediate family that has gotten to the age of 40 without any form of cancer.

The movie “The Fall Out” and my emotions

I recently watched “The Fall Out” it was about a girl that had experienced being in a school shooting. It proceeds to explain about this girl, her family, and her friends and the adjustments that had to be made, and how they each took the knowledge that this terrible thing could happen to them or … Continue reading The movie “The Fall Out” and my emotions →

Hello Blog Family – We Meet Again!

Hello Blog family! I have been away from the create space for over 50 days now. I was so excited about October’s content that I didn't think much about November. However, as you know my extended Hospital stay completely ruined October’s content. I had high hopes for creating content and then Covid hit. Most people … Continue reading Hello Blog Family – We Meet Again! →

September Goals

The thing about goals I want you to understand is some people do and some people do not function well with goals. What works for me may not work for you and that is ok. I sometimes meet all my goals and sometimes I don’t meet a single one. This month I have some pretty … Continue reading September Goals →

Acquaintances vs Stranger HATE

Hi Beauties, this is going to be a piece talking about how I handle the hate and what affects me vs what doesn’t. I am going to start out on the easier of the two to handle and talk about. Stranger Hate. Recently on Tiktok (and this is exactly why I did not want to … Continue reading Acquaintances vs Stranger HATE →

Fear In Picking A New Doctor

There is nothing more frightening for fat folks than having to go to the doctor. Especially if it is a new doctor. Honestly, the one good thing about covid was the telehealth options. I was able to find two new doctors this way and then when I had to see them in person it was … Continue reading Fear In Picking A New Doctor →

Happy (3rd) Anniversary To Me!

Here we are on March 25, 2022. To you, this date may not mean too much but to me, it is the day that I officially began this blog. 3 years ago I was so scared and so in awe of how my boyfriend had so much faith in me that he bought me my … Continue reading Happy (3rd) Anniversary To Me! →

DBT and Facing My Past

I have the unique situation where I am in DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) group therapy and this is made for me. I have been in this group twice; it has cycles and I’m doing the cycle again. My Mental health needs have changed. This time around I’m not so focused on my past hurts and … Continue reading DBT and Facing My Past →

A Look Back on 2021

Did 2021 even happen? To some of us, 2021 was the great entry back into life from the 2020 shutdown, for others it was just an extension to 2020. For me personally not too much changed. Ok nothing changed except maybe I went easier on the boys and Jeremy about baths, hand washing, and germ … Continue reading A Look Back on 2021 →